All of You
Is Welcome Here.
Creating Space, Artifacts & Experiences where you remember to exhale
Sassy, snarky and full of sh*t, Stella is the animated version of my mind - my ego.
She thinks shes funny when she spouts untruths and fear based bs. Luckily, I know her tricks, and include her on my journey with love and grace.
Because afterall, she really is just trying to keep me safe.
Since befriending my ego, I thought it a good idea to give her a new role. Terrorizing other humans. In a good way. In a way that *hopefully* makes them less serious about their own bs too.
So, I gave her a pen, well, laptop, email address and her very own advice column.
I dare you to write in a question.
Dear Stella™ Advice Column
is the advice column where your inner chaos meets her inner chaos — and somehow leaves clearer, braver, and slightly less ridiculous.
She is snarky.
She is dramatic.
She is occasionally right.
She is never enlightened.
Go ahead, hit the button and ask Stella your question about anything: the "when" phenomena, your inner critic, financial worry, or even relationship advice. I promise you, it won't be what you expect.
Previously asked questions...
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“Dear Stella, I’m overwhelmed by options and can’t make a decision.”
➤ “Perfect. Pick none of them and dramatically reorganize your spice cabinet instead.”
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“Dear Stella, my inner critic won’t shut up.”
➤ “Tell her she’s not wrong, just rude. Then buy yourself flowers and ignore her for 3-5 business days.”
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“Dear Stella, how do I trust myself again?”
➤ “Ah yes, the classic amnesia of being brilliant.
Sit down. Breathe. Look in the mirror. You’re welcome.”
to set up your next feral hands-in-the-clay event
BEFRIENDING YOUR EGO
Planet Earth, Sacred YES Universe
INTRODUCING STELLA: My Beloved, Snarky EGO MASCOT
Stella is my ego.
Not the self-help-polished, incense-burning ego.
The dramatic one.
She was born somewhere between body shame, spiritual bypassing, people-pleasing, and “I’ll start Monday.”
She survived on comparison, control, snacks, and catastrophic storytelling.
Instead of banishing her, I gave her a microphone.
Stella started out as the catalyst for the end of my Self-Help Era and catapulted me into the Sacred YES Universe.
Get Your hands in the Clay - my mentor suggested and throw away all the books. And that's what I did.
Stella was born and I haven't had any peace since.
She has traveled to the forest, the shopping center and even Mexico (where she lost an arm, a tooth and an eye.) She's better now, but very bitter about it. Anyway, This is my way of being lighthearted about the heaviness our egos can create in our world.
Stella's Ego Art Gallery
Click image & See where it takes you
Stella would like me to tell you she is not very thrilled you have come to the end of her page so quickly. IN fact she is demanding I create an entire website JUST for her.
Yeah, I think not.
But thanks Stella,
I know you mean well.
I think...